I thought of three ways:
First, go out and see, know more people, expand the circle, maybe you will find the right person. However, it is also possible to be deceived. After all, it is not the communication of oneself. Many people will certainly be carefully dressed, and there are many scums that attempt to cover up defects with camouflage to achieve ulterior motives. be careful.
Second, find in the circle, the circle is small, and there will not be too few people, because there are many students from childhood to Daguang, looking for contact information and restoring the original appearance of the circle. There is a word called "black under the lamp". The original refers to the dark area under the lamp. It is extended to see things happening close to the side. Although it is not appropriate, you can use this phenomenon to examine the reality. The best half is around (in the circle).
Third, half-blind, this is the concept I compiled after reading the problem. First of all, I analyzed the shortcomings of the blind date: I don’t know much, my friends and family are rushing to the shelves, reminding me, being forced to get along (even married), the result is not Appropriate, then rupture; there is also a blind date recommended by a blind date website, or a person who is not reliable, so that it is not just inappropriate, even fraudulent, or hidden by big problems. This is a disaster than the last one that is at least a good family.
Therefore, it is necessary to take the essence to its dross, the recommendation of friends and relatives who are reliable (not to rule out), although I don’t know how that person is, but at least it should be a good person, you can find a way to contact, but don’t be blind. The mode, catching the ducks on the shelf is not good, can make contact with the opportunity, if not, add a WeChat or something, after all, it is so advanced. Use blind dating to find ordinary normal love, while avoiding the lack of understanding of blind date, and love does not know the risk of the other party's family, internal risks and external risks are less, if it is more likely to talk about it Will be a success.
xxHere I still have a point of view, a small reminder: don't be blinded by the appearance, depends on the real inner (character, character, strengths, shortcomings, etc. whether it is in line with yourself), and the feelings are slowly cultivated, at first sight, of course Quite a lot, but most of them are fake (the world is not big, there may be no love, there may be a love for heaven, so it won’t be vetoed completely), x wants it, after all, I don’t know, just see one side, I can like another. People, who also say that they have feelings or something, are not very credible. Most of them like the other person's appearance. This is not very good. Although everyone loves beauty, there are lifelong events, not just appearance.
Do not understand each other, what are the feelings? Don't think that the other person is good-looking, it must be a perfect person. The good-looking person is also going to the toilet. On the contrary, it is called 貔貅, because ta is a person, so ta is not necessarily a good person, ta must also have shortcomings, I believe that good people Many, but some shortcomings will make good people look very bad, so we must carefully observe and analyze carefully: who is the other person, ta's shortcomings can not accept, and people like you. So many things don't analyze and understand each other, how can they do it? Understanding the process of getting along is actually the process of cultivating feelings. If you don't understand, you are likely to be deceived. It doesn't matter if you are cheated. There is a police uncle. If you are deceived, you will not be able to recover it. If you take the plate, get a hat, and have a green grassland on your head, it is much more uncomfortable.